I see many women who are worried about the birth of their child. They may be dreading
the pain and discomfort, or be worried about the future. Often they have a feeling
that they are supposed to be enjoying this wonderful experience, and that they are
missing out somehow.
The idea is to teach the client how to hypnotise herself very quickly and easily.
It is possible to practice relaxation so often that you can relax during any ordeal
- even childbirth!
My approach is first of all to ensure that there is nothing from the past that is
at the root of the anxiety. This is very important. The roots of most or all insecurities
and anxieties come from the past. I then teach my patients how to hypnotise themselves
and to relax even during the birth. It is possible, with about half of the population,
to use this self-hypnosis to significantly reduce pain.
There are some therapists who specialise in Hypnobirthing. (Unfortunately, there
are also some,to my mind, unscrupulous "therapists" who have tried to copyright
this expression.) Sessions also will often include the birth partner. The idea is
to show the partner how to encourage the mum to hypnotise herself. There is nothing
fundamentally different about the hypnotic techniques used for Hypnobirthing.
Often, Hypnobirthing training seems much more about the medical processes and various
stages of childbirth, than actual hypnosis techniques. I must say that I don't really
see the point in concentrating on the medical side, as the hypnotherapist won't
need to double as a midwife! The mum-to-be would be best served by obtaining this
kind of information and help from someone who is properly qualified and has years
of training in midwifery. Specialist Hypnobirthing can be pretty expensive, especially
as it sometimes involves the therapist actually attending the birth.