Hypnosis is a state of mind that we all use frequently. In essence, the Unconscious Mind comes to the fore, and the Conscious Mind moves into the background. A better name for it is 'Daydreaming'. When you're daydreaming, you're in hypnosis!
There is nothing spiritual, weird or mysterious about the hypnotic state. It is a totally natural state that can be likened to the period just before going to sleep. Hypnosis is an inward focusing of attention where the demands of the outside world are switched off. It is a state of deep relaxation during which the analytical mind shuts off making the unconscious mind accessible.
Whilst in hypnosis, you are not asleep and nothing can happen without your consent.
You are not under anyone's control! You can hear everything being said and afterwards
will usually remember all that has happened and will definitely remember
all that you want to. It is not unusual for people to believe that they were not
properly hypnotised because they remember "thinking" during the session, and can
remember much, or all, of what happened.
You remember everything that you want to remember.
If you are a bit apprehensive, and most people are at their first session, you will
probably remember everything. Once you are used to being in hypnosis, you will often
"miss" much of what has been said. It doesn't really matter because
your unconscious mind has heard every word. It's like a car journey,
you will 'remember' the journey, but don't normally remember every lamppost you
passed.
When your are in hypnosis, you are much more inclined to accept suggestions that are made to you, as long as they don't feel wrong. All hypnotherapists use lots of suggestions, for instance that you will now feel more positive and motivated, or that you don't really want to eat chocolate any more. Suggestions are often very effective but thay can fade, sometimes quite quickly, especially if there is an underlying psychological problem (which you would treat with Hypnoanalysis).
The memory of a past trauma remains in the short-term memory, with a big red X. The aim of Hypnotherapy is to deal with this memory. It is my intention to uncover hidden traumas and to provoke an outpouring of emotions: what we call an abreaction. Abreactions are good - we use these to finally vent all the negative emotion. Once this X is removed, it will still take a few days for the memory to be processed and moved to long-term memory. Especially following sessions where many minor problems are dealt with, some clients recall some bad memories, or have "busy" dreams for a few days. These include such things as falling out with friends at Primary School, bad teachers, etc. These soon fade again, as the memories are processed by the brain, however you may feel "down" for a few days. To the therapist, this is good news as it shows that the treament is working. It may not be so pleasant for you, however.
It sometimes happens that the only sign of a psychological problem is some bizarre
behaviour, or a single specific problem, such as dreading speaking at meetings,
or exam phobia. This fear is always rooted in a past traumatic event. Some clients
wish or expect to receive only suggestion therapy to "paper over" the problem, and
not psychotherapy to treat the cause.
NB I always offer psychotherapy as part of your treatment. (I usually
do not confine treatment to one of simply treating symptoms using suggestions. So
don't expect to come to me for a single session to help with a phobia, for example.)
Sadly, some hypnotherapists are simply not trained in how to deal with abreactions, or may be a bit afraid of dealing with the "difficult stuff". The thing is, an abreaction may occur spontaneously, anyway. When this happens, I say "Good!" to myself, and use the opportunity to deal with the memory. The less competent therapist may decide to wake the client to stop the abreaction leaving the client feeling confused and upset. (If this has happened to you with another therapist, don't be put off. You should seek treatment from a better hypnotherapist!)
Hypnotherapy should never be sought by anyone who has a psychotic illness such as Manic Depression ("ordinary" depression is usually ok), or schizophrenia, etc., unless under the guidance of a psychiatrist. The good therapist looks for clues to the mental state of the client, however he or she cannot guarantee to spot the signs. It is important therefore to disclose any relevant medical history.
By the way, people with epilepsy must never use hypnosis, except under special medical supervision. (Note: Hypnosis can't cause epilepsy!).